by:
Justin C Luyt
When people seek relationship advice from a trusted friend or
family member, it is most likely a waste of time, says relationship
author Justin Luyt.
"We ask for relationship advice often when we feel we do not have
the answers to our relationship challenges," Luyt says. "We grasp
for external wisdom, with the false belief that we do not know the
answers, but if we are being authentic to ourselves, we have those
answers."
Luyt recently published The Spirit of Romance, a book that offers
readers practical relationship advice and uses interactive planning
tools to not just change thoughts, but feelings and behavior, too.
Using the term "Spirit", Luyt defines the inner source people must
acknowledge before looking honestly inside themselves instead of
seeking relationship advice from others.
"We know why we are where we are in the relationship," Luyt says,
"but often avoid our own internal introspection. Spirit challenges
us to grow and learn."
He insists that by strengthening relationship with Spirit, people
can truly grow and move past the challenges at hand.
"When we ask for help from a friend, it is for an ear... not
guidance," he summarizes.
Throughout his book, Luyt offers a look at self-reflective
relationship advice, all based on Spirit, which allows people to
see others in their true light, as people filled with desires,
dreams and vulnerabilities.
Luyt writes people seek mutual personal and spiritual growth as the
basis for any relationship. His ideas of Spirit inspire people too
look within their core being to experience something they can
understand and feel completely. This acceptance of
Spirit negates the need for outside relationship advice when people
can answer the crucial questions with knowledge from within.
When a relationship changes form or course, people have it within
their Spirit to redirect their energies from sensitivity and
vulnerability to spiritual strength. This strength gives people the
ability to become their own relationship advisors because they have
gained the insight necessary to overcome false doubts.
Luyt writes, "People are here to grow; and spiritual growth occurs
in a space of love, not fear."
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Through his public speaking and counseling work, the South African
native has developed the Accelerated Romance Coaching Program, a
one-of-a-kind mentoring and coaching system for singles and
couples. Various Fortune 500 companies have used his
trans-continental engagingly fresh, out-of-the-box and into-
reality approach for group seminars, training and coaching. His
book, The Spirit of Romance, is available at:
http://www.SpiritOfRomance.com
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